Being with the Wasp’s Nest

It’s been quite awhile since I’ve written a blog post.  Every year I take a month or so to stop writing, stop thinking, stop making lists of topics or outlining future articles, and just take in the world.  I read what catches my eye, have long conversations with both loved ones and strangers, go to art exhibits, take walks in different environments, and just wait to see what has been trying to get my attention but which I have been too busy and preoccupied with my own thoughts to notice.  I am always amazed at how new ways of looking at the world, unperceived perspectives, and unrecognized allies just show up during this time.

Coincidentally, two of the books I have read have talked about this very way of being.  One was conversations with people who have thought deeply and acted forcefully to build bridges between humans and the natural world.  The other was about how art heals.  Each, in its own way, advocates just being with nature or with a piece of art.  When we stop judging, analyzing, speculating, looking for symbols or archetypes, and all the other things we tend to do everyday, and just be with nature or art, we can listen to what it has to tell us, which may be quite different from what we think we will hear. 

I plan to try to do this more throughout the whole year.  This need to judge and put everything we come across into boxes so that we are comfortable with it cuts us off from so much beauty and wisdom.  Just being with something or someone is such a compassionate, respectful, encouraging way of experiencing that thing or person.  You accept whatever or whoever you are being with completely just for what it or s/he is — the tsumanis with the butterflies, the anger in the art along with the harmony, the cussedness along with the adorableness in human beings.  How much would we, and all beings, have to say if we knew that everyone around us recognized our faults as well as our best qualities, and just wanted to know what message we had to give? 

In that spirit, I offer you this photo I took a week or so ago of a wasp’s nest.  I invite you to just be with it, to enjoy the geometry of it, to think about the wasps inside, to wonder at it, to hear what it may have to tell you.   I would love to know what it has to say to you!


By Carolyn Lee Boyd

Carolyn Lee Boyd’s essays, short stories, memoirs, reviews, and poetry have been published in a variety of print magazines, internet sites, and book anthologies. Her writing explores goddess-centered spirituality in everyday life and how we can all better live in local and global community. In fact, she is currently writing a book on what ancient and contemporary cultures have to tell us about living in community in the 21st century. She would love for you to visit her at her website,, where you can find her writings and music and some of her free e-books to download.


  1. One wouldn’t guess such powerful inhabitants from the humble abode.

    Yes – it’s at moments like this that I realize what a true artist nature is.

  2. Here what it murmured to me:

    Come in your own womb
    Come see and hear your own darkness
    Come also to touch your very own power

    This is absolutely beautiful. Thank you, Marie. Carolyn

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